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« on: March 16, 2010, 05:10:19 AM »

Below is a study taken from some excerpts and my own analysis~

how it started. Based on Sexualism and ego culture of Japanese Men...

A women's studies professor explained the phenomenon by Japanese men's lack of true listening to the problems of women, and by women's desire to take care of a man and be loved back.

Thus started the first Host club ever in Tokyo in 1966!

The system here...Or rather the Wannabe system in singapore started with the first pioneers of Host club in singapore, credited or rumoured to be Giorgio in Lavendar. Ive heard of similar joints opening up before that but wasnt successful/ or closed down. Thus giorgio began its style and culture, akin to the female hostesses in famous nightclubs and also taking a bite out of Thai discos. Thus the Flower "garland" things began. That is how we appreciate or show support to hosts we like. Customers usually goes in without entrance fee, and book and buy their own bottles or choice of poison- just like a normal PUB, nightclub,club etc....until the show began. In Singapore the hosts are paraded and shown on stage like catwalk models, sometimes with number tags, and they will show talents like singing, dancing, even performing to win the hearts of the audience. The crowd can then based on their own limits and liking, support their chosen guy/guys by hanging garlands, or test waters by inviting the guy over from the manager/papasan/owner/consultant. After which the hosts will entertain and PR, plus converse with customers, get drunk to their own happiness etc... The sleaze factor changes from clubs to clubs, some people think china men are too realistic, fake...some ppl think thai are dirty or cheap...whatever people think they are free to choose whatever they like, but professionalism in Hosting is yet to be seen and to be reach...hopefully with time it will improve. After working hours, some clubs employ a booking system to keep their boys in check and to earn a lil more, some other hosts are free to accompany their guests if they wish to. This is considered bad, unprofessional in Japan.

In Japan, customers often pay for entry fee, table booking fee. After they have sat down, they are treated to a menu of the hosts like a portfolio from a modelin agency. Male hosts are expected to flirt more in conversation and to indulge in less body contact if possible, all the while entertaining their guests with charisma, magic tricks and so on. Some of the host clubs also have stages and palces where they can perform. Hosting is considered common and professional in Japan and is respected widely because of the demand and market of woman feminism rising. When customers have chosen their host, it is usually a permanent system- customers cannot change hosts after that! This actually solves many problems such as infighting between guys etc...Customers can only change under special cases. Hosts in Japan earn through the customer's spendings at the club directly with a percentage given to them. In a way it becomes a secure living and job for hosts as this r/s sometimes can be extended for like 5 years, and its permanent! Its like insurancE! lol.
Hosts' customers are their own and if other hosts try to hit on, go out with the "taken" customers and are found out, they will get banned from their clubs or fined! It is a very strict and interesting hierachy in Japan Host clubs. They have usually leaders and get involved with different factions within the club. Also, majority of the clubs are owned by mafia and nightclub owners so you can see the danger factor of working in such an environment.  Actually i think this system of "one" customer is pretty cool because i have seen many times infighting and it is quite sick.And because of this system, Hosts are really professional and will avoid with all means to have any r/s with customers as once found out by another customer, 2 customers would be gone forever!But for the system of free flowerig system free-for-all here it creates the opposite effect(sometimes) for so-called hosts to earn quick money, and to degenerate themselves for the men to be competing for the intended woman's graces. In Japan there is this dark path for Guys who wants to do this- these clubs r called Pillow hosts' clubs which are really like gigolos' joints! Therefore Hosts usually despise the Pillow hosts as they ruin the whole reputation of the nightclub industry and like the Japanese say: once into the Pillow host club you will never ever become a proper Host again.

i wonder if we would come up with a Fusion kind of system to be better?

That summarizes most of it really. thanks for the read! eh...butterfly points?hahaha!:P
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« Reply #1 on: March 16, 2010, 09:52:06 PM »

Thank you.
Butterfly point to you!~!~!

Well I think SG will have a fusion of different concepts. Usually when the foreign concept is employed lock stock and barrel the market does not accept readily like G-Club system from Thailand. Tweaks will have to be made.

Please write more articles. We can make this a sticky article for everyone to read.
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« Reply #2 on: March 16, 2010, 10:01:49 PM »

I guess those male host should b used to hav frequent chges in cus as kana find out r/s... bcum a trend n common to them eventually...
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« Reply #3 on: March 16, 2010, 10:15:38 PM »

Like that become boring for customer.. spend so much but get so little.. lol.. i need some TLC!! If like that think i canot afford to go le..
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« Reply #4 on: March 16, 2010, 10:43:44 PM »

Like that become boring for customer.. spend so much but get so little.. lol.. i need some TLC!! If like that think i canot afford to go le..

Hi Chicchilady,

What is TLC? Can elaborate?
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« Reply #5 on: March 17, 2010, 12:09:43 AM »

lol i think she means touching, oops, tender loving care! actually i think women are very different with men in the sense that when men goes to nightclubs, they really are interested in the best looking ones with the most sexual appeal; or the most innocent looking one to see if she's a devil in disguise, and touching/physical contact is the thing that they r interested in/take pleasure in~(usually)

for women its almost totally different as they rely more on emotional connection, thats explains the phenomenom in japan where women goes to host clubs to find their 2nd home. A woman once described her r/s with a host as being very special like her 2nd husband, but they only have emotional and mental connection, she wil visit the host almost every night to pour her sorrows or joy akin to talking to her busy husband...

of course the above scenarios doesnt apply to all women, and men for that matter, course each of us is unique and different ....some might say....man in a woman's body perhaps? Smiley
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« Reply #6 on: March 17, 2010, 01:55:12 AM »

Dun say till like i very 'se' like tat leh.. but.. the place so noisy.. how to tell them my sorrows? anyway even if i tell them i dun tink they even understand lor! lol.. unless i go learn thai! So basically, i tink women needs attention! and action to show that he cares.. hahah.. anyways.. we know they dun really care.. but we jus wana feel cared for! if really jus sit n talk ah.. i think can vomit blood.. and next day get sore throat oso
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« Reply #7 on: March 17, 2010, 03:34:09 AM »

lol then thats a diff mental approach alr! like u said can vomit blood, betta go learn thai or sth, if not, no communication, then all u can do seriously is only...engage is small talk n jus flirting lo with thai! hehe thats why some ppl find guys who can speak common tongue...
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« Reply #8 on: March 17, 2010, 11:44:08 AM »

Japhost,

good article.
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« Reply #9 on: March 17, 2010, 07:36:22 PM »

it's ok even if coomunication barrier... we hav physical action to convey our message to them ma....LOL
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